Wedding Day

Posted by Jason Bayless at January 4, 2009 : 10:28 pm
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On December 21, 2008, Mylie and I woke up early that morning to get ready for our big day. We were to get married at Duffus Castle on this wonderful day. Our ceremony was set to start at a little before 12:00 noon. Winter Solstice will occur at 12:04 during our ceremony and the sun will set at around 4:30pm. With the sun already hanging low in the sky we made our way to the castle.

Duffus Castle, near Elgin, Moray, Scotland, was a motte-and-bailey castle (one of the oldest mottes in Scotland) and was in use from c.1140 to 1705. At the time of its establishment, it was one of the most secure fortifications in Scotland. At the death of the 2nd Lord Duffus in 1705, the castle had become totally unsuitable as a dwelling and so was abandoned.

The name of Duffus (pronounced DUFF’-US) derives from the lands of Duffus in Morayshire, Scotland. The Name is a compilation of two Gaelic words, dubh and uisg, meaning “darkwater” or “blackwater”. At one time, the region was below sea-level and the Loch of Spynie and stagnant pools of water were a conspicuous feature of the area.

We arrived at the castle and we parked a fair distance due to the motte. As you saw in the video above, as we walked towards the castle we were met with the sound of bagpipes. This was an unexpected surprise from our new found friends Angie, Will and Jackie.
Angie performed the ceremony and Will took care of the details on site and the wedding dinner, which he cooked and it was simply amazing - but I will talk about that later.

It is hard for me to put to words how amazing the things Angie and Will did to make our ceremony beyond perfect. All I can say is that they had no limits to what they would do to make sure our ceremony -before, during and after - would not be out done by anything in this world.

Even after a full day of setting up and performing the ceremony they rushed to their home and prepared a Scottish dinner for us. (You can see the meal in the slide show below) They cooked vegetarian haggis, neps and tatties, the most amazing gravy I have ever had the pleasure of putting on my taste buds and so much more. They left no stone unturned to make us comfortable and happy. Mylie and I are very blessed to have met them and to have them perform our wedding ceremony. If you are getting married I highly recommend them - check out their website - ‘Getting Married in Scotland?

With the video above and the slide show below it would be overkill to revisit the finer details in text form but I will be putting a photo book together soon for family and friends -if you want one, let me know.

And now for the epically cheese-y but fantastically beautiful photo slide show - Enjoy!!



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Day Four and Five - Is this a Dream?

Posted by Jason Bayless at December 23, 2008 : 3:51 pm
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The rest of day three, once we arrived in Glasgow, we drove up to Inverness.  Such beautiful country, every five mins we were stopping to look at waterfalls, Scottish Stags or just the over-whelming mouth dropping beauty.  Check out just some of the photos… Have I said I love Scotland? - Well, I do - I don’t ever want to leave this place - EVER!

Drive to Inverness 4 Drive to Inverness 3 Drive to Inverness 2 Drive to Inverness

We stayed the night in a Guest House in Inverness and they had the best breakfast I have had in a long time and the nicest people -everyone in Scotland is so damn friendly - I LOVE this place.  Anyway, here are a couple of photos of Inverness and our breakfast.

Inverness 1 Inverness 2 Inverness 3

After we left Inverness we made our way to Elgin for our appointment at the Registrar’s office and we signed our paperwork so we could get married.  Now that that was all taken care of we could relax a little and get ready for our wedding.

I will post about the wedding on the next post because there are so many things to tell you - I just don’t know where to start .. the three rainbows? the wonderful people at the wedding? .. the castle?…  I will decide by the time you read the next post - but since I am in Scotland, I am getting off the computer now so I can go enjoy this wonderful place!!

Scotland


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Day Two and Three - Delta Subject to Change

Posted by Jason Bayless at December 20, 2008 : 2:35 pm
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Mylie and I arrived at the airport at roughly 4:00 pm on Tuesday the 16th. We checked in our bags and made our way through security without any problems. We were excited that our flight did not leave until 6:30 pm because it gave us time to do a final check over on all the directions and small things we might need for our trip to Scotland. We approached our gate only to find out that the flight was delayed for an hour. We were so happy about our trip the delay didn’t bother us at all. airport

Two and a half hours passed and we hear over the intercom that our flight is going to arrive at a new gate so we had to relocate to the new gate.  As we approached the new gate location we hear a voice on the intercom saying that there is a problem with the plane, there is a light burnt out on the control panel so they need to replace the light before we can take off.  Mylie and I started to worry about our connecting flight into Edinburgh, so she went up to the counter and inquired about if we would make the connecting flight. The Delta employee said, ‘She was sure we could make the connection.’   Eight o’clock rolled around and we are still sitting in the Norfolk airport, stress starts to set in because if we don’t get off the ground by 8:30 pm we will miss our connecting flight to Scotland.

8:45 pm came and we hear the announcement, ‘We are sorry but this flight is now canceled due to problems with the aircraft.’  Mylie raced up to the counter and became the first person in line.  Mylie explained to the Delta employee that we had a connecting flight out of JFK airport and need to get to Scotland. The woman looked at the computer for a few seconds and responded, “We can put you on a flight for arrival in Edinburgh on Dec. 19th or we could issue you a full refund for your tickets.”  Today was the 16th and they said the only flight they had that could get us to Scotland was on the 19th -Three days later! One major problem with this outside of it being three days after our plans to arrive was we had an appointment with the registrar office on the 19th to fill out our paperwork to get married. Scotland requires that you fill out the paper work three days prior to the wedding ceremony, among other ‘odd’ rules for getting married. If we did not attend this appointment we COULD NOT get married.

Mylie explained to the Delta employee that we were getting married and have already invested money into this event and there is no way we could arrive in Scotland on the 19th. The Delta employee offered to give us a refund and when she saw the flames flare up in Mylie’s eyes, the Delta employee offered to make a phone call to see what she could do for us. Hours and hours passed, and Delta kept telling us fly on the 19th or get a refund.

Frustration was building in all of us, Mylie, me and the Delta employee. We were not leaving until we found a compromise to get us to Scotland in a reasonable time. I found it hard to believe that there were no planes flying to Scotland before the 19th and the Delta employee was not doing anything to release this disbelief. One of the Delta phone conversations went like this, “Hi, this is (insert Delta employees name) at Norfolk, I am requesting a tracker. I have a couple here who is getting married in Scotland soon and their flight was just canceled, Yes, No, the flight was canceled due to maintenance problems. I see we have a flight here but the seats are in business class, what?, No, oh, we can’t do that? No, I don’t see any other flight leaving for Scotland. Ok, thanks” She hangs up the phone and looks at us and says, “We can offer you a full refund.”

We did this dance until 12:30 am, then she said, “We can fly you into Amsterdam tomorrow morning then you can fly into Glasgow from there, arriving in Glasgow on the 18th.” After eight hours of sitting in the airport, we finally reached an agreement so we said, “YES, we will do that!” Then the Delta employee gave us a Seven dollar food coupon for any of the shops in the Norfolk airport and booked us a room in the Holiday Inn. So that night, 8 hours later, we sat in a hotel, 20 minutes from our apartment in Norfolk, still in Virginia, shocked by the events of the day and realizing that we had originally planned to fly into Edinburgh so we need to switch our rental car to the Glasgow airport and cancel our room that we had reserved in Ullapool, Scotland. Luckily, Scotland is five hours ahead of us so at 4:00 am, we could call the rental car and the reserved room to cancel and switch everything. After all the details were taken care of and we had everything canceled and switched over, we went to sleep.

We woke up a couple hours later to catch the shuttle to the airport, we got to the gate of our departing flight only to hear the voice over the intercom say, “Attention Customers on flight 5594, we are sorry to announce but this flight is overbooked and we need volunteers to give up their seats.” Did I mention, when we checked in and got our boarding passes, we did not have seat assignments? - We did not have seat assignments, so we were waiting to see if there was going to be room for us on this flight. Something the Delta employee forgot to mention last night.

After the announcement, Mylie and I stared at the counter with anticipation, waiting for someone to approach the counter to give up their seats. Seconds felt like hours, no one came, the Delta employee made a second announcement, then several people walked up and so did Mylie. She was last in line and when she approached the counter she said nervously, ‘I need to get a seat assignment’ There was a pause, the woman behind the counter said, “what is your last name?’ Mylie told her and the Delta woman typed it into her computer screen. The woman looked at her screen, then her face went sad as if she was about to say, “No, I am sorry, I don’t have the assigned seat for you.” The woman looked up from her computer screen and looked at Mylie and said, “Here are your tickets, enjoy your flight!”

RELIEF! We are leaving Norfolk!

One hour and 55 minutes later our plane landed in Atlanta, GA. As soon as Mylie and I got off the plane we raced to the monitors to check the flight status for our Amsterdam flight. It read in big letters, “ON TIME” Mylie looked at me and smiled with a sigh and I said to her, “Lets go get something to eat while we wait three hours for our connecting flight.”

The rest of the trip went without a problem and we arrived in Glasgow.

I will post more tomorrow after the wedding.

I am running a couple of days behind on this travel journal because I have not had internet access until today, but don’t worry, I will bring everyone up to speed.


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